Tips and tricks to be attractive!
Well, first of all, in order to melt a guy’s heart you need to be yourself.
Yes, this tip can sound easy, but I know that we, girls, often tend to compare ourselves to others and sometime, even, imitate other people, which is not the way to go.
Today, let’s talk about some easy tips on how to be more lovable, approachable and how to melt a guy’s heart.
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1 Minimal makeup
Guys tend to love natural makeup on girls and many surveys confirm this fact, therefore, avoid applying heavy makeup when you want to impress a guy. Instead, stick to natural looking tones and try to enhance your God-given beauty, this way you will look cute and your man’s heart will, definitely, be melted.
2) Avoid speaking with a loud voice
Loud voice can be really annoying and, even, disturbing, therefore, try to speak in a soft, low tone when talking to a guy you want to impress, but still, it should be your own voice, don’t imitate others.
3) Smile a lot
A simple smile can break the ice of any difficult communication. A girl who smiles always tends to seem cuter, more approachable and warm.
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4) Let guy lead a conversation
Make sure you take time to listen what a guy has to say, let him take a lead in the conversation and ask you questions. Avoid bombarding him with your queries, especially, if you’ve just met recently and don’t know each other very well.
5) Make him feel comfortable with you
Make your communication easy by being friendly, smiling and, most importantly, by being genuine.6) How to dress up?
Well, obviously, if you want to look cute and melt his heart, avoid wearing spikes, as well as sharp and dark clothes. Wear soft fabrics and light pastel shades instead. This type of attire can make you look softer and cuter.
7) Your hairstyle
A cute and delicate hairstyle can add up to your loveliness. Soft waves and braided hairstyles can make you look very cute and sweet.
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8) Your perfume
Guys tend to be sensitive about girls’ perfumes, therefore, avoid overloading your hair and clothes with rich and sensual scents. Instead, chose fragrances that are fruity, floral and sweet; apply your perfume sparingly, if you want a guy to sit through a conversation with you.
9) Be gentle
If you want to look cute and melt his heart, make sure to avoid aggressive body language, hard gestures and exaggerated movements. Be gentle, ladylike and delicate.
10) Don’t pretend
One of the most attractive and cute qualities is sincerity. Be genuine and authentic in your communication with that special guy, he will, definitely, feel it and will more likely respond by the same kind of attitude.
11) It’s ok to be shy
It’s totally ok to feel shy and, even, blush in front of a guy you like. Therefore, avoid pretending to be bold all the time and don’t suppress your natural shyness. It’s very attractive and cute.
12) Be kind
Kindness is something that you can cultivate and chose deliberately. It’s easy to be kind to those who treat you kindly, but when you chose to be kind to all people – this quality is really exceptional. When a guy sees your good, respectful and kind attitude toward others, he will, surely, be impressed and his heart will, definitely, be melted.
I hope you found it fun and somewhat useful.
13. Hold a drink in your hand.
Guys don't want to be used. Meaning: They don't want to buy you a drink right off the bat. My clients and I used to look for the girl with half a cocktail. That way, if she finishes her beverage while chatting with my guy, he could offer to buy her another to keep things moving. |
14.Work the eye contact.
To reel him in from across the room, tilt your chin down a bit and flash him a couple of sultry glances. (Guys love it when you look up at them — it makes them feel manly.) If the guy across the room is so gorgeous you have a hard time looking straight at him and are simply too nervous, fake it by focusing on the tiny area right between his eyes.He won't be able to tell the difference.
15.Don't immediately ask him what he does.
Some men think all women are gold diggers. A lot of my clients hated being asked what their job is. It's that fear-of-being-used thing again.16. Make positive small talk.
Once I started studying other women, I couldn't believe how negative some of us appear.When you're out on the town, you're supposed to be having fun, and any complaint ("It's hot in here!"), pessimism ("There will definitely be another terrorist attack"), or snarky quip ("Look at that chick's belt — so 2002!") pretty much pokes a hole in the fun-girl aura you should be projecting.
Some better small-talk topics: recent vacations, favorite bands, hilarious movies. You can hit him with your deep, dark world-view some other time.
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